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Text Box: A message to all subs: It is always difficult when going to meet people you have never met before. You never know what they are really like however often you have chatted on the net. The phone is better of course as you can get a feel for someone from their voice. Nevertheless it is absolutely essential to be very, very careful. There are a number of things you need to do to make yourself as safe as possible. These are the sort of rules that professional subs use, and they should know! (Note: These are written for a female sub going to meet a male Dom, but they are just as relevant whatever the sex of the partners may be.) 1. Never meet at his place, or at your place. Always try and find a neutral alternative which you should set up yourself. You don't know who or what may be hidden in the bathroom at his place, or at a rendezvous he has arranged, and you don't want him to know where you live. 2. Always arrange a neutral meet first in a restaurant or other public place. If this is near the alternative rendezvous that you have arranged (hotel, friend's flat etc) so much the better. If things seem ok over the meal you can take him back there. If not you can go on your way. 3. Never let him give you a lift anywhere in his car. Use your own car, or a taxi. Once you are in his car you are in his power. 4. Always let someone else know where you are going and at what time. You don't have to give specific details, only that you are meeting someone for the first time who you are not sure about. If it is someone on the scene, so much the better. Arrange to telephone this other person at a prearranged time (about the time you would be arriving at the rendezvous point if you decide to go through with it.) If that person does not receive that call from you at that prearranged time they must come looking for you. If they cannot find you they must alert the police. (If you do not have a mobile phone, borrow one!) 5. If possible, the best thing is to have a driver who will deliver you to the restaurant and wait with a mobile phone until he/she hears you are ok. 6. As well as calling that person to say you are going on to the rendezvous, you must phone them again one hour later, or whenever you are done if earlier, to say you are ok. 7. Always try and get an id plus an address from the person you are meeting. Hard this one, and they may be false anyway, but people met on the net are untraceable. A straight up guy should be prepared to show you his driving license or whatever, because he will understand the risks you are taking with him. One last thing: Instinct is a useful guide. Pay attention to it, but don't follow it blindly! Good luck! Annabel Rose back  

Safety Issues

by Annabel Rose